My top 5 positive things that childlessness brings

This weekend G and I had a lovely mini break at the seaside. We had fun, but it was also quite tough for us because we were bombarded with idyllic scenes of families enjoying quality time together. There were sandcastles … Continue reading

The top 5 things to say, and not say, to someone who hasn’t got a child

Now I’m in my 30s, the topic of having children always comes up in conversation. It usually goes like this: Aquaintance: “How about you? Have you got any children?” Me: “No, I haven’t no” Aquaintance: “Not yet eh?” Me: “Well … Continue reading

The Top 5 comments people say when they discover you can’t have children

1. You can always adopt! 2. Oh that’s a shame, you’d be a great mum. 3. At least you get to lie in. 4. Maybe you could use a surrogate, have you frozen your eggs? 5. You’re the lucky one, … Continue reading

The top 5 worse things about being childless

1. Taking fatherhood away from my husband The worse part about having a hysterectomy was the impact it had on my wonderful husband. It’s bad enough knowing that I will never be a parent, but inflicting the same future onto … Continue reading